Name: Jayme A

Age: 26

Graduated from Elan School: 2002

What circumstances brought you to Elan?
Drugs/Risky behavior/lack of self worth/lack of self esteem/poor relationships with family & friends. 

What were your relationships (family and friends) like before Elan and how have they changed as a result of coming here?
Before entering Elan, my family was scared for me and of me.   Our relationship consisted of distrust, continued disappointment, fear, and malice.   I constantly created an uncomfortable unloving environment.   My relationship with my friends was purely drug seeking.

How did you feel about being at Elan when you were here?
While living at Elan, I went through many different phases.   At first life at Elan was like living in a fog, almost as if I was on automatic pilot.   I was in shock really, as time went on, I felt my past guilt, regret.   I slowly became conscious of how I affected others and myself.   I found that I too had the drive to follow my dreams, be a good daughter, sister, friend etc.   I found out that I was a hard worker, determined and smart.   I really began to love myself!

How do you now feel about having been at Elan?
Elan saved my life and gave my family, friends and society an individual that has brought love, faith and hope into their lives. 

Where did you go/what did you do after leaving Elan?
After graduating from Elan I went straight to college full time and played SOCCER!   

What skills did you learn while at Elan that have helped you in your adult life?
At Elan I learned how to face emotions, how to communicate, how to ask for help, and most importantly, how to be honest.   Above all, I learned that I could live a sober life through facing emotions/misfortunes etc. that had previously led me to using/abusing.

What is your fondest memory of your time here?
The lake view, soccer games, all the sports events, morning meeting, the enriched staff, and the kitchen.

What advice would you offer to parents considering Elan for their child?
Considering Elan could save your child's life!!!!

What advice would you offer to a student just entering Elan?
Have blind faith in what you see, even if Elan looks dumb, it all will make sense if you give it a chance.

Do you still think about Elan?
I currently work as a Reintegration Case Manager (for ex-offenders). I put in about 20-30hrs as a Residential Counselor and I am an amateur photographer!!

Where is your Elan Diploma?
Yes I do think about my Elan!! My diploma is on my wall in my bedroom!

Is there anything else you'd like to add?
Elan is a place where people, families and friends regain ideals, recreate connections, where people find their origins, learn to understand themselves and can become accepted by themselves! THANK-YOU jla

Is there anything your mother/father would like to add?
THANK-YOU and our THOUGHTS will always be with you.